I’m Luci, and that's Ryan, my husband, with me above. We've been married since 2006, and for about the first decade of our marriage, I remember having to go through all kinds of mental hurdles and justifications to convince my body to get on board with sex.

I loved my husband so much, and felt guilty that I didn't want sex more. Taking care of our four kids, working, taking care of things around the house, and squeezing in some self-care time left me feeling pretty unmotivated sexually (sound familiar?).

As much as we wanted to feel more connected, it always felt like there was an invisible, elusive elephant in the room; one we couldn't quite put our finger on.

We thought the issue was the sex itself, but soon discovered it wasn't. Sex was simply reflecting back to us some key things that were missing in our relationship:

Deeper trust and emotional safety, embodied integrity, and sexual healing.

Our journey has taken us on a wild ride with many deep-dives into exploring our personal integrity, feminine & masculine embodiment, erotic liberation, and much more.

Years later, after supporting many women, men, and couples through life-changing erotic liberation and relationship healing, I've put together a core curriculum for men that walks you through embodying a powerful Sacred Masculine presence and way-of-being.

Wildhearted Lover is my long-awaited 6-week live coaching program for men who want to explore deeper embodiment of the Sacred Masculine. Beyond regurgitated polarity teachings and worn mental strategies, Wildhearted Lover will teach you how to awaken the wildness of her heart without abandoning yours.

Come Closer is a virtual 5-week course for couples who want to learn how to seduce each other through creative foreplay. Yes, beyond a little bit of 69, oral, and random ass grabs! So if you're hungry for more in your erotic life - more presence, more playfulness, more eroticism - this course is for you. 

Juicy frameworks to drive each other wild with desire well before the physical foreplay begins!

Liberate Eros through open-hearted conflict. Plus, learn how to grow + heal deeper wounds with my 6-step relationship repair process.

The 25 Days of Play is a virtual, downloadable guide with 25 Play Challenges to help couples cultivate emotional connection, passion, and a sense of adventure and playfulness in their relationship. Couples are challenged to step outside of their comfort zones while creating their own sense of safety, strengthening their foundation of trust, love, respect, and deep care and communication.

Get juicy conversation flowing, deepen your erotic connection, and discover more of each other's kinks with these 50 spicy questions!